A Rough Spot
I usually do not point out publicly when my children are difficult. This morning, though, there was a lot of bickering, fighting and selfishness happening. That really gets me down. And it is not pleasing to the Lord.
The kids and I had a talk. I could tell by their faces that they were sorry for letting me, each other, and the Lord down. They made up quickly and I had high hopes that the rest of the day would be better.
Yet, I had them sit down at the table for an exercise to help them see that love is an action and should be expressed through service. They each took a paper and wrote down the other two person’s names. Under each name, they had to write out three things they would do for that person between now and bedtime. I have looked over the lists and see things like completing chores, playing games, or fulfilling other desires. Haniya even made a list of what she would do for me to show she loves me. I’m ready to be served! 
What a smart exercise in teaching Agape love. I think that’s it, isn’t it? Loving not because you feel like it but because we should. I may have the name mixed up with another.
I appreciate that you focus on your children’s positive behaviors mostly! It is refreshing. I do the same, probably for the same reason as you do. I also appreciate when you share how you teach them positively.
You are a great Mom and an awesome teacher!
Hugs, Robin
What a great idea, I would like to incorporate it when my kids are older